The Art of Seduction

With the way my other posts were progressing, this one talking about how to seduce your crush just seemed natural. I would say that the most important aspect of trying to seduce someone you are interested in is how you seduced them or how you set the mood because as we all know, this can make or break the future happenings between you and your crush.

First of all, if you are crushing on someone, you need to find out their particular interests, hobbies and what they do for fun. A good way to do this is by asking someone you know to be your crush's friend, someone who knows a lot about them. This is a key step because not everyone is into the same thing. A romantic dinner and movie might work for someone and not others.

Secondly, I would say choose neutral territory. This should be somewhere that both of you are comfortable and some place that, if need be, you can make a quick exit. Oh, another key point is that you should try to dress appealing to the other person. This is a step where your crush's friend could come in really handy. Different people are into different things. Do not assume that the less clothes the better. You do not want to go overboard and have the person you are crushing on to think that all you think about is sex or something like that. That in and of itself could cause enough tension for everything to fall apart.

Lastly, I would say be yourself. Before you approach the person, look in the mirror and say "I'm smart, intelligent, and I have got what it takes to get whomever I want. I am all that and more and he or she would be lucky to have me." It might sound silly, but many people find confidence incredibly sexy. Be careful not to be too cocky though because that is a no go and total turn off, at least in my book.